Nourish your body, Heal the Planet

It’s a crazy time to be alive. Between the obvious signs of climate change, to great social upheaval across the world, it’s all we can do to not bury our heads in the sand like ostriches. It’s not enough anymore to simply eat organic, and forego plastic for glass, and ride our bikes instead of drive; it’s time to take it a step further.

Now is the time to heal the relationship we have with our bodies and, in so doing, come home to our responsibility as caretakers of this planet. We are disconnected from our bodies in the same way we are disconnected from the Earth. We don’t have to be environmentalists to have an impact; we must change on a smaller scale, the scale of our hearts.

When we deny the experience of our bodies, we deny life itself. On a micro level, it’s the lack of nourishment: endless dieting; critical thought patterns; exhaustive workouts; substance abuse; lack of human touch and authentic connection. The correlation between all this and what we are doing to the planet on a macro level is undeniable.

It’s time to dig deeper. We might say we’re happy; but, when we get really honest, the inner dialog tells a different story. Internalizing this angst isn’t going to bring about change. We have to transform it, and commit to radical self love not as a someday-one day kind of thing, but as the daily practices we cultivate over time. Imagine how much more of an impact we will have on the planet when we approach it from deep, abiding love, rather than denial, or fear.

Start small. Unplug. Cook. Exercise. Get enough sleep. Embrace your imperfections. Cultivate gratitude. Throw out the scale. Then, go out and make the difference you were born to make. 

Shifting the Default

With all the talk of cycles ending, moving from light into dark, expansion into contraction, it seems the natural progression of these thoughts brings me to the following question:

How does one navigate transition and change gracefully?

Typically we humans have our defaults set in such a way that we don't even realize we are in a constant cycle of repeating the same patterns over...and over...and over. Usually we react to things (interactions, decisions, relationships, challenges) in one of two ways: we either shy away from it, tune it out ("I can't do it") or we try to conquer it--muscle through, take control, assert our power. This is our default. Think about your tendency: How do you typically react when something unexpected arises, when your buttons get pushed or something triggers you? What are your patterns in relationships, in your career, in your social sphere? If you are having trouble thinking of something, look no further than your family. The holidays are right around the corner, and a lot of us will be spending time with family members we don't see very often. For me, when I go home to visit my family, it is the shiniest mirror I could possibly imagine reflecting back all the things I may the day before thought I had all figured out and squared away. I see my life through a certain lens; I imagine myself a certain way, until I go home and suddenly I'm 17 again and playing out all the old samskaras with my sister, and I'm thinking, what the hell just happened? This isn't how I want to be.

Now imagine a particularly challenging yoga pose, one that causes you to cringe every time your teacher announces it. What is your default here? I'm willing to wager that how you react to a difficult pose translates exactly to how you react to struggle in your day-to-day life.

So how do we shift the default? Just like anything else in life, with practice. This change won't happen overnight; just as our physical bodies on our mats get stronger with consistent asana practice, and those challenging poses begin to open up for us, so does the practice of shifting out default get stronger over time to the point where the practice doesn't fade away the minute you roll up your yoga mat, but is carried with you into the 'real world' as well.

A consistent yoga practice is a call to the highest: can we practice in such a way that every movement, action, thought, and expression begins to move into alignment with our highest nature? By learning to approach challenges on the mat with a sense of curiosity, rather than aversion or assertion, we are more able to work with life's curve-balls instead of being constantly mowed down or blindsided by them.

Ramakrishna said, "The winds of grace are always blowing; it is for us to raise the sails." By opening to the winds of grace, we begin to have more and more of those fantastic "A HA!" moments and it becomes more and more easy to catch ourselves falling into old patterns and snap out of our defaults with greater ease. And the world in turn starts to turn every day a bit rosier.